Kurashiki, Japan, May 2026

Friday, March 03, 2023

Fruit and other stuff

Following on from the $7 vegetable box of seconds that I got at Wilson's last week ...

... This week they had a $9 box of seconds fruit.

Yes, yes, of course I bought it, with Lindsey's encouragement. My hesitation was the lack of freezer space in both our houses, plus it's not as easy to deal with fruit. You can't really, for example, chuck it all in the slow cooker and turn it into stew if you eat as little stewed fruit as we do and there's no freezer space.

However, I now have a lovely box of apples, peaches, plums and nectarines in my possession. I have dug out all my fruit cookbooks for inspiration. Cake, pie, tart yes - and I might pull out my dehydrator.





I had put some clothes on the bed this morning, intending to wear them after my shower.  This is what I found when I came back from the bathroom:



I am wearing different clothes. Brandy is still sleeping on the original wardrobe choice.

I don't know if you remember, but our lovely local bakery was destroyed in a fire in January 2022, along with the gym and the tobacco shop (which is where the blaze was started in an alleged arson attack). The takeaway chicken shop, an empty shop and the post office were affected by smoke, but not destroyed and the chicken shop and post office re-opened a matter of weeks later. Anyway, after months of discussions with insurance companies, the owners of the complex, the council and who knows who else, then more months of rebuilding, the bakery re-opened yesterday. I think they were run off their tiny little feet. I popped in just before lunchtime when it was busy but not hectic. When I came out again, there was quite a queue waiting to go in to collect lunchtime delicacies. The tobacco shop has also been completely rebuilt. The whole run of shops has had a new roof put on and is looking shiny and new and very smart. (I believe that reconstruction of the gym is also underway but it's harder to see what they're doing, plus I don't have a personal interest in the fate of the gym 😝)

Tuesday, February 28, 2023

Geelong

It was Tony's birthday on Sunday. He would have been 92. Lindsey, Ian and Stella went to the Boatshed to mark the occasion.

Not sure who took this - Lindsey or Ian

I went to Geelong. Sunday lunch at Irene's place, with Gillie, Chris and John. We started in the garden, where we intended to spend the afternoon. Alas, just as we finished our first course, it started to rain. We moved inside!

This time I managed to get photos of the humans who were there, but not of Flora the Dog who was mostly outside chasing, I mean guarding, the chickens.

Before the rain:





And after we had moved inside:

Irene had made a MASSIVE lasagne
I think she'll be eating the leftovers
for weeks!

It was a good afternoon, rain notwithstanding. And Flora did eventually give up on the chickens and come in to play.

Irene is not the only one who might be eating leftovers for days and days. On Thursday I bought a Mystery Box at Wilson's, of seconds and close to expiry vegetables and fruit. It cost me $7 and I think I more than got that back in the two pomegranates and half cauliflower that I found inside it. There was a lot of other stuff as well. So I deployed the slow cooker and put most of the vegetables in it, together with some chicken thighs that were also being sold cheaply because they were at their use by date. 

There was no way I was going to eat all of that while it was still edible, so several boxes of it have gone into the freezer. This required the skills of a Tetris Grand Slam Champion. I have closed down the freezer in the garage and didn't want to turn it back on just for some boxes of chicken and vegetable stew.

The rest of the stuff I used in a Magnificent Salad. Obviously that can't go in the freezer. I'm just going to have to eat salad at great speed. Salad with everything. Apart from last night when I ate the chicken stew that wouldn't fit in the freezer, with a Yorkshire Pudding that I made because I felt like it. I did have salad for lunch, though.



Today, if all goes according to plan, marks settlement on Stella's villa in Mount Martha. I think she is in two minds about this. It marks the end of that chapter in her life and, while the next chapter started last June, it does mean that there is now no going back. 

Not that she was going back. The house has been empty of furniture since October so wouldn't be particularly cosy. And where she is now they bring her regular cups of tea and pieces of cake; her clothes are washed and ironed; her meals are cooked for her and the dishes done; her bed is made and the room cleaned and tidied; people come and go throughout the day. None of that would be happening in her villa in Mount Martha.


Edible flowers from my mystery box.
Not being eaten.
Being decorative on my dining table 

Tuesday, February 21, 2023

A letter from Services Australia

Finally, finally, finally, Jim has had a letter from Services Australia telling him that his financial contribution for his aged care facility has been re-assessed.  How much you pay is means tested. Everyone pays a set daily fee, which is 80% of the basic aged pension, then how much extra you pay depends on how much you and your partner (if you have one) earn and own.

They can't use our house as part of the assessment because I live in it and they can't intentionally render me homeless. But they can take both of our incomes into account, including overseas income. You may remember the bill they sent me for over AUD 27000, because, they said, I hadn't filled in the financial assessment form (I had) so they were going to charge us the full monthly fee, backdated to July. Since then I have had ongoing telephone conversations with them, filled in innumerable forms, had multiple conversations with the finance people at the care home and generally had very stressful time trying to sort it all out without rendering us bankrupt (the full monthly fee is considerably more than Jim and I jointly earn in a month).

Anyway. Yesterday he got a letter saying that the re-assessment means that he only needs to pay the set daily fee and no further contribution. This is a considerable relief! I am, possibly optimistically, hopeful that there will be no more demands with menaces for enormous amounts of money.

I have been "renovating" the kitchen. I can't afford to put in a whole new kitchen, and probably couldn't justify it anyway. The kitchen is not well planned, but it is functional, more or less. But the cupboards are irritating, and the kitchen bench was designed such that the bit that overlapped into the dining room was largely wasted space. I have never used it as a breakfast bar, and only used it as a serving space when we had lunch or dinner guests. Otherwise it was dead space that I couldn't properly reach when I was in the kitchen.

So I have put shelving there:


Next, I will organise the cupboards so they are a bit less irritating. Eventually. When I get a round tuit.

Monday, February 20, 2023

Weather, a Birthday and a Pub Lunch

We've had some lovely summer weather recently, although Friday was forecast to be extremely hot, with strong gusty winds and a fire rating of extreme. I'm told that it got to 41 or 42 in Melbourne but in Mount Helen it got to around 36 or perhaps 37 with gentle breezes and very low humidity. I was mostly up at Rupert and Hugo's place and kept an eye out for fires and had the emergency app open, but all was well and really it was just a lovely summer day.

On Saturday, the day started like this:

Looking down the driveway, through fog,
not smoke

and ended like this:

Looking up, in the backyard


I wish I had a camera which could capture the light in the backyard. After a hot day, as the sun moves towards the west, the trees cast a beautiful green shade which feels cool, even when it is not.

Jim is settling well into his new room. Often, when I go to visit him, his room is empty and he is in the TV room, or the tea room or walking around. He seems to like his new neighbours, who are relatively quiet and don't make free with his room or his possessions. He pretty much always has his lunch in the dining room and even, sometimes, his dinner.

Saturday was Hugo's 6th birthday. He is beginning to approach a venerable age, for a Great Dane. He and Rupert celebrated with goodies from a Pup's Birthday Bag that Lindsey bought. I bought some dog-friendly rocky road at our local IGA, and some short dated meats from the deli section (which they sell as pet meat). Lindsey bought new squeaky toys. Hugo (and Rupert) thought it was all a bit good



Stella and I went to the Golden Point pub for lunch yesterday. Next time, we must remember to order from the seniors' menu. My chicken parma was enormous and Stella's stir fry with noodles and prawns looked like a small mountain. Rupert and Hugo enjoyed the leftovers, which we took to their place in a doggy bag - actually for doggies 😂

Alcohol free sparkling wine
Stella and I had a glass each

My ridiculously large chicken parma

Stella enjoying a trip out


Tuesday, February 14, 2023

Jim's New Room (and other things)

I had a phone call from Jim's care facility on Wednesday asking if I would consider him moving from within the dementia unit to a room in the main section. I was a bit puzzled by this but agreed to discuss it with them on Thursday. In the meantime I discussed it with Lindsey (who was in favour, more or less) and with Stella (who lives in the main area of the same facility and was a bit worried about the idea).

On Thursday, Lindsey and I met the person who had rung me. She showed us a lovely room, much larger than his current room, which they were proposing to put him in. It was along a little, dead end corridor with residents who were not inclined to wander into other people's rooms and wander off with things. It's in the same section as Stella's room, although not immediately adjacent. It also meant he would be able to join in some of the weekly activities, if he is minded. They do have activities in the dementia unit but not as many, and Jim wasn't very interested in them.

I agreed to try the move, which happened on Friday afternoon. I met Jim, the nurse and a couple of carers in Jim's original room and we trundled around with all his possessions to his new room and got him settled in. He and I went and got Stella and brought her around to look at the new room. It all seemed satisfactory, at least for a start. Once he is settled, I'll try taking him to some off the activities and see if he likes them.

Visiting Jim's new room:




As I said, it's much bigger than his previous room so there's room for more furnishings and stuff. I'm also going to see about getting some picture hooks put up so I can put some photos in his room.

Stella reported that Jim had gone for lunch in the dining room on Saturday. He almost never went to the dining area in the dementia unit. As far as I am aware, he has been going for lunch but not, I think, dinner in the dining room. I must look into him going for dinner as well.

I've taken in one of the fold out chairs that we used before I bought the couches for the lounge room, and I've ordered another set of shelves for his room. I might go to the second hand bookshop in Buninyong and see if they've got any car, garden and building books for him to look at.

He wasn't in his room when I called in yesterday. His door was wide open but he and his walker were nowhere to be seen. I found him in the dining room. He had, apparently, been wandering around exploring, had found the large, communal fruit bowl and picked up an apple. He seems to be quite comfortable! And someone has trimmed his beard.

Trimmed beard, sliced apple and
a cup of apple juice in his
new room



Lindsey and I had a busy day on Sunday. I drove her old car to the flat, she drove her new car to the flat. We met in Ballan for fuel and a breakfast sandwich. Then from the flat we went in Lindsey's car to Mount Martha where we met Stella's neighbour Jenny and joined her for lunch at The Dava. We inspected Stella's villa which has now been completely refurbished and is looking very good. We left the keys to the unit with Jenny to deliver to the office. The villa has been sold and settlement is at the end of the month so that will have been our last visit to the villa, if all goes to plan. Lindsey and I called into Tully's before heading home. Jenny had asked if we didn't have something similar in Ballarat and yes, we do. But it's not quite as interesting as Tully's and since we were in the area ... Then we came home. We will see Jenny at least one more time. We still have a couple of things in her garage which we will need the trailer for.

I put the fold out chair by my front door on Sunday evening, so I wouldn't forget to take it in to Jim's room.

Ooooo, said Whiskey.
A new chair.
How exciting!

No, no, said Brandy.
I think you'll find that's my chair.
And he pushed him off!

Brandy is much smaller and lighter than Whiskey.
That does not mean he is disadvantaged 
 when it comes to getting his way!

Tuesday, February 07, 2023

More Lunching

Lindsey and I were working on Saturday morning. It was much, much busier than it had been the last time I worked on a Saturday morning when, you may remember, it was extremely quiet.

We had our usual number of patients and phone calls. Pathology, however, was very busy. There was a new pathology person. She didn't closed her queue until around 15 minutes before closing time.

We were still there, waiting for her to finish, an hour after closing time!

In fact, I didn't mind that. I did, however, mind the faffing around that ensued after she finally got rid of her last client. I couldn't leave until she did (locking the door, you know; putting on the alarm; that sort of thing). Lindsey gallantly waited for me, though she could have gone. Not home, because we were travelling in the same car. But definitely to the cafe where we were meeting Freyja and Simon for lunch. It was only a little way down the road.

I may have got a bit tetchy when pathology still hadn't finished at 13:20!

Finally the pathology lady finished and left. Lindsey and I finally managed to get to the Indonesian cafe where Freyja and Simon were waiting for us. We had delicious food for lunch. (Barramundi in a not too spicy sauce for me - I didn't eat the fresh chillis that adorned my food). Then we went back to their place for a loo stop and a play with Ghost. And then we went home.

Yesterday I had a long overdue visit with my optometrist in East Ivanhoe. I thought my vision had changed a bit but, in fact, it hasn't much. I don't need new reading glasses. I only need new varifocals because the lenses of the old pair are scratched and speckled and I can't see through them. My retinas, optic nerves and eye pressure haven't changed at all. All is well. No sign of macular degeneration (mother) or glaucoma (father) or cataracts - although the optometrist wants me to make an appointment to have my peripheral vision checked. Not because she is worried but because she hasn't ever done it and wants it done as a future benchmark. I had budgeted for two new pairs of glasses but only needed one, so pushed the boat out for more expensive but rather nice frames for the varifocals,  and then took myself to Fairfield to visit Oasis, a Lebanese grocery store and cafe.

I might have had chicken shawarma with tabouli for lunch. I didn't buy any groceries, because I didn't really need anything. I did, however, buy a couple of rather nice salad bowls. And then I went home.

On Sunday, I had actually had to make my own lunch!!!!!!! A bread roll with cheese, tomato and cucumber and a cup of tea. I have to say that it was very nice, if a little less exciting that Japanese Bento, Indonesian fish and Lebanese chicken.

The weather is still strangely cool for February, although it has been warming up as the afternoons progress. There is a positive carpet of leaves from the eucalypts over the side fence, lying in an abandoned manner all over the patio and the grass patch out the back. I might have to sweep and rake - and maybe even go wild and cut the grass again. And I must turn my attention to the front garden. The grass there definitely needs cutting, the long dead broad beans need pulling out and the green bin has been emptied so I can carry on dismantling the shrub by the front fence, and start cutting down the agapanthus that runs rampant down the driveway. I can think of lots of things to do with that garden space that would be more productive or prettier on the eye than agapanthus, red hot pokers and various odd grasses. This may all take me quite a bit of time. I'm restricted by the size of my green bin, which only gets emptied fortnightly.

Friday, February 03, 2023

Birthday Fun

It was Stella's birthday yesterday. She turned 89. She is almost reaching a Good Old Age 😂

We went out to the Stockland Shopping Centre in Wendouree and had lunch in a Japanese cafe.


Birthday Girl having a Bento lunch


Come to that, we each had a Bento lunch!
(Photo by the friendly cafe host)

Then we went for a wander around the shops. There are clothes shops aplenty, but none had anything that Stella particularly fancied. So we went into town and visited Kathmandu and Black Pepper. They had things that Stella fancied. Reduced price things in Kathmandu (no one who has more sense than money would ever buy full priced things in Kathmandu!). A nice padded jacket and a fleecy waistcoat for the winter. And in Black Pepper, a short sleeved shirt and matching trousers just in case the summer ever makes a re-appearance.

We went to Wilsons for veggie and fruit supplies. And then we took the Birthday Girl home for a well deserved rest.

She and I went out again today. We went to visit her GP, who was very pleased with her and said she was doing very well and obviously thriving in the aged care facility. Then Stella and I had another lunch out. Bacon, eggs and mushroom on toast in Maggie and Kates, a little coffee and brunch shop in Buninyong. We more or less managed to dodge the showers that swept through in the course of the day.

Speaking of weather, we had 10 ml of rain late yesterday afternoon, in about that many minutes. It flattened some of my little bushes out the front



I may need to get in and prune them. They didn't get done last autumn, but also didn't get squashed!

Someone needs to tell the Weather Dogs that, although we are grateful that the temperature isn't over 40d, it would be nice if the outside temperature was a tiny bit more than 7d, and the inside temperature would be even nicer if it was a little more than 16d. 

This should not be necessary in FEBRUARY!!

Anyone would think that it was April or May

We could also do without the icy rain, but that isn't bothering me now I am inside and the fire is lit.

Tuesday, January 31, 2023

Ziggy is back And Stephen has Gone

The last weekend in January was Stephen's last weekend with us. We had heard tell of a pop up Vegemite exhibition in Beaufort at the weekend. Sounded intriguing.

So Freyja, Simon and Stephen came up for the weekend on the train.

Lindsey, Wendy and I went to the Zoo drive market, then Wendy and I collected Stella in Lindsey's car (which she had very kindly lent me) and made our way to Beaufort. Freyja, Simon and Stephen went in Julia, Travis and Henry's people carrier.

The exhibition was in a little room off what used to be a small service station on the approach to the Beaufort shops. It was small, cute and reasonably typical of exhibitions in small country towns and villages, I suspect around the world:





Freyja, Stephen and Stella on the Beaufort Main Street
Photo, I think, by Wendy

Then we headed out to the lake for a picnic lunch. Fish and chips from the Beaufort chippy, and picnic food that Julia brought.












It was a really good day - although Stella was very, very tired when she got back to her place.

This did not stop her joining us for lunch on Sunday! We had it at my place. The weather held up enough for me to use the newly resurrected barbecue, although not well enough for us to eat outside. The barbecue worked well, although it has never got as hot as I would expect it to, not even when it was new. I might have to take the jet things off and thoroughly clean them and see if that helps. Oh - and I must remember to move the thyme plant next time I used the barbecue. It's looking a bit singed on one side!


These are Freyja's photos from Sunday:


I did this cross stitch of the traditional county
of Yorkshire in the 1990s
I really must get it framed and put on the wall!

Bye Bye Stephen. 
It's been a real pleasure

We're going to miss you




Today I took the bus into Ballarat. I have never before taken the bus from Mount Helen to the station. I've done it the other way several times, but this was a first for me. The bus stop is a few minutes' walk from my place and the bus goes past it twice. I had been a bit puzzled, when I looked at the PTV website for the timetable, to see that there were apparently buses about 7 minutes apart twice an hour. It's because the bus comes from Buninyong, past that bus stop, then swings up and around the University in a big loop, before going past it again.  That answers that, then :D

And so by train to Bacchus Marsh. I also don't think I have ever had any reason to get off the train at Bacchus Marsh. Usually, I would be heading into Melbourne if I happened to be on the train. Then a wait in the sunshine for a taxi into the town centre. And there was Ziggy, waiting to be released from hospital and to come home.

We managed to get up the Pikes Creek Reservoir Hill without incident and stopped for lunch both for me and for Ziggy at the Ballan service station

Out and about once more

Nice new tyres
to replace the shredded nice new tyres

And Stephen is on his way home:

Freyja's photo



Now that Ziggy is home, I have put a spare broad brimmed hat, a tube of sunscreen and a roll on tube of insect repellant in the car. All of these things would have been Very Useful Indeed last Friday when Wendy  and I were stood on the side of the freeway for an hour or so. The back of my neck got quite sunburnt. I hadn't expected to be outside at all so hadn't been properly equipped, plus I was wearing scrubs so my neck was more exposed than it usually would be. I'm prepared now, although I hope the next time I am unexpectedly outside in the sunshine it is because I am on an impromptu visit to the beach. Or a beer garden