Ise Shima, Japan, November 2024

Sunday, December 31, 2023

You will be pleased to hear (or, at least, I was pleased) that Whiskey has not needed the mini enemas that the vet sent home with him. All appears to be, more or less, back to normal.

The weather recently has been cool and cloudy with showers of rain, often clearing in the afternoons and evenings to sunny and bright. Today has been sunny and warm, apart from a cool wind. I even put the washing out. And I have done a few, gentle things in the garden.

For the past many weeks, the internet has been bringing to my attention a lovely, colourful and bright doona cover which I rather fancied. It is true that I could probably have done with an extra cover. I only had three which is enough unless I need to change both the beds at the same time. Four would give a bit of wriggle room - but I would buy a cheap one if all I was looking for was wriggle room. It was a Want but not really a Need.

Then Jim's daughter Jeanette and her family gave me some Amazon money for my birthday. I try, when I can, to use money that is a gift to buy fun things, not essentials, so I bought the doona cover. It arrived on Friday:


Cumbrian Forest
with optional Whiskey

Stella wanted to know why I had bought a delightful bed set with their birthday money and boring, manky potting mix with hers. Because they gave me Amazon money. If they had given me Bunnings money or cash, I would have bought potting mix, or mulch or something for the garden beds. I find such things exciting (or at least the things I can do with them) even if Stella does not. I promise I won't buy potting mix for her for her birthday!

Lindsey and I went out to the Mushroom Farm yesterday morning and then out to Elaine to the Farmgate Shop. They have a paddock of pick your own sunflowers, which opened to the public yesterday. Someone came out to take publicity photos. As the owner came out of the paddock after  the photo shoot, he handed me a couple of sunflowers as a New Year present. They are looking very sunny on the sideboard.




Ordinarily, I keep the Christmas decorations up for New Year. I have taken them down early this year. The Christmas tree was in front of a cupboard I needed to get into and when I tried to move it the top part fell off. I couldn't be bothered reassembling it and sorting out the lights and baubles again so I took the whole thing down.  And then figured I might as well take everything down. 

It is amazing the number of cobwebs and gunk hiding behind the tree. It's a plastic tree and had only been up for three weeks or so. My spiders constantly make my place look like it's a haunted house, or part of a set from a Hammer House of Horror episode. I know I need to de-web frequently to deter the spiders but mostly I can't be bothered. I don't mind the spiders - if only they didn't web absolutely everything! I wouldn't even mind that, if only the webs weren't so sticky. And if they didn't put them where I want to walk. I emphatically do not care for spider webs across my face!!!!!

Oh, and I have the Christmas crackers for next year. Kmart was selling them on Wednesday for 50c for boxes of 8 and $2 for boxes of 12. I got this little lot of 40 for a whole $5




Thursday, December 28, 2023

Whiskey Goes to the Vet

Wendy and I noticed on Christmas Day that Whiskey was off his food. This is unusual for Whiskey but not particularly unusual for cats in general.

He was still off his food on Boxing Day and was strangely subdued in the evening. He also appeared to be constipated, straining to pass poos and when he did they were hard and rocklike.

He was very subdued yesterday so I rang the vet as soon as they opened and got an emergency appointment. He miaowed all the way to the vet. He miaowed all the time we were in the waiting room. The young golden retriever sitting opposite us did not approve of this and sat behind its owner's legs and tried very hard to get under the chair.

Whiskey was very well behaved while in the vet's room. She poked him and prodded him and took his temperature, looked in his mouth and ears and generally did a thorough examination. She was keen to keep him in overnight for re-hydration (I hadn't noticed him near the water fountain so don't know if he had been drinking), a mini enema or two and some other medications, for the bargain price of between $800 and $900, depending. If he needed an actual enema, another $900.

I could buy a great dane puppy for that. Or around 12 new cats. Or go to Japan and back with spending money to spare. So the vet gave him three injections, a tablet and some liquid and sent him home with a supply of medication for me to give him. 

He miaowed all the way home.

One of the medications is used as an anti-depressant in humans and also makes cats hungry (I think that is a side effect in humans as well - but you have to wonder who thought it would be a good idea to try this medication on a cat to see what would happen!!) It certainly made Whiskey hungry. As soon as I let him out of  the (enormous!) cat carrier he made a beeline for the cat food bowls in the dining room where he positively scoffed the cat biscuits. Then he glugged vast quantities of water. And then he went outside for a potter around. Obviously feeling better, but still no pooing. I hope the laxatives work. I really don't fancy giving him a mini enema myself, and certainly not on my own!

I must buy a smaller carrier before I have to take a cat anywhere again. I bought the enormous one when we first got Brandy and Whiskey because it was all I could get. I might get a smaller one for quick trips to the vet. In the meantime, I had left the enormous one by the front door. It has a cushion in it. Whiskey  thinks it makes an excellent bed. I might have to keep it for the time being.

Wednesday, December 27, 2023

Boxing Day Lunch

When Jim and I went to England in March 2020 we had intended to make a train trip through Spain, France and Switzerland. My cousin Rosie and her family live in France but she works in Geneva and we had arranged to meet there for lunch while we were around.

Alas, Covid intervened, the train trip was called off and we came back to Australia.

Rosie was intending to come to Australia. with her family, the following Christmas. That didn't happen either.

I was a bit worried when she contacted me to say that they were trying again and expected to be in Melbourne for this Christmas. If Rosie and I hatched another plan to meet, what pestilence, plague or other disaster might we unleash on the world?

As it happens - no worldwide disasters unfolded and Rosie, Jon and their two boys made it safely to Mount Helen for lunch yesterday. Lindsey, Ian and Stella came down from Hill House. Wendy was still here. Matt and William came from Warragul. Freyja and Simon had intended to come but Freyja was struck with some sort of stomach bug and they beat a retreat back to Melbourne (I hope that wasn't the start of a worldwide disaster - although none of the rest of us have been struck down. Yet!)

We had chicken, ham, scallops and spring rolls. We had the obligatory roast potatoes. We had a fruit platter and lots and lots of chocolate. I didn't make the (vegan) vegetable tart I had intended to make. I did make a festive "trifle" salad which was vegan friendly. I didn't get the message saying that Freyja was sick until after I had put in the vegan cheese.



Lindsey had made a KitKat house. Tommy had a great time smashing it with a ladle




My cats are usually very suspicious when lots of people come around, especially if they are people that they don't know well. Usually, they hide in my bedroom. They liked Tommy and Miki though (to my surprise - they are usually even more suspicious of children; they don't see many of them)



It was a good afternoon. And then everyone went away back to their homes and holiday places. I was early to bed. It's been a busy few days



Rosie and Stella

Tuesday, December 26, 2023

Christmas Day

I really enjoyed Christmas Day this year. It was nice and gentle and quiet.

Wendy and I had breakfast at my place. And watched the rain. A lot of rain.  There was 60mm in my (not very scientific) rain gauge when I emptied it yesterday morning. 

It continued raining. And the wind kept blowing. And it was distinctly on the cool side.

We went up to Hill House at lunchtime for a present exchange and sandwiches. Then Wendy and I came back to my place for the afternoon.

Lindsey and Ian gave me a Google doorbell. I have screwed it onto my front door and set it up. It informs me that there is a person outside every time I go in and out of the front door. It tells me a package has been delivered if I happen to be carrying anything. I go in and out of my front door quite often. I am often carrying things when I do. I wonder when it will decide that I don't count as a person :D

We were a very small number for Christmas night back up at Hill House. A mere 8 of us, as opposed to the usual 25 or 30. Freyja and Simon came up from Melbourne. Josh came from Ballarat. And that was it. And it was lovely. We all sat around the dining table in comfort and could help ourselves to plates of food from the feast on the table. Very civilised and calm. And beds galore for people who were staying over. Wendy and I slept at my place. Wendy doesn't drink alcohol so was fit to drive us back after dinner

I think there will be LOTS of people next Christmas. All of the people who have decided to do alternate years are all planning to come in the same year all together.

I might go to Iceland.

Stella is still not especially well. Her angina has decided to come out play after a long time in hiding. But I think she very much enjoyed her Christmas. I suspect that she finds the chaos and hubbub of a full family Christmas a bit difficult these days.


Stella, at the Christmas dining table 

New doorbell in situ

It was still raining when I got up this morning. The wind had blown my bauble wreath off the front wall. But the worst of the weather seems to have passed us by. For now.  And it is not actively raining at this moment.

Best get on. I am hosting a Boxing Day lunch and should possibly sweep the floors before the visitors come.



Monday, December 25, 2023

First Thing Christmas Morning




You couldn't possibly have a more different day to last year. We have had rain, thunder and storms overnight. I am wearing my winter dressing gown. I am definitely not intending to have my morning cup of tea in the garden! It's still cloudy and dark and wet (not night time dark, but cloud and gloomy weather dark). The Christmas tree lights are twinkling - although the solar fairy lights outside have gone out.

The run up to Christmas has been festive and, mostly, sunny. 

Our friend Sandy is over from Perth for Christmas so we met with her and a mutual friend of hers and Lindsey's at a Japanese All-You-Can-Eat place in Sunbury on Thursday evening. You have 90 minutes and can have pretty much whatever food you want for $40 per person. Drinks are extra. Sandy is vegan and she had plenty of food to choose from.

We closed the surgery early on Friday, and I took the opportunity to go to La Manna on my way home. I haven't been for a while and enjoyed my wander around. They had lots of festive food and plants. Lindsey had asked me to get a large box of cherries - so I did. 2kg for $99. Expensive, I know, but the cherries are large and luscious and the cherry harvest this year has been badly affected by the dry spring and (so far) wet summer. Cherries are in high demand, low supply, and very expensive this year. I also bought a lemon green poinsettia for Stella to give to the staff at the care home. Not as expensive!

We must make sure we eat every one of the cherries!

Several of us met at The Shared Table in Buninyong on Saturday lunchtime. Simon and his family, because they can't come today. Lindsey, Ian and me. Freyja and Simon. But not Stella who had taken to her bed, not feeling well. This was a worry. Stella never misses the opportunity of a trip out and absolutely never misses the chance of lunch in a fancy restaurant. The Shared Table is pretty fancy. She was feeling better when Simon called in to see her after lunch and seemed ok when I checked in later in the afternoon.

And that was the start of our Christmas Party, which is spread out over several days this year, with smaller gatherings on Saturday, today and tomorrow. And, I suppose, last night.

Lindsey and I were at Wilson's Fruit and Vegetables shortly after they opened at 7am yesterday. We had done the supermarket by 7:45 or so. We went out to Kmart and Bunnings and then went home to unpack the car and have a cup of tea (Lindsey, at her place) and coffee (me, at mine). Then we headed back out to Dan Murphy's for wine and stuff and finally to the mushroom farm for a fruit platter and some bits and pieces.

Stella had declared herself well enough to join us for the planned Christmas activities, so I picked her up mid-afternoon and took her up to Hill House. She still isn't feeling all that well but definitely wasn't going to miss out. Wendy joined us for dinner at Hill House, then she and  I came down to my place.

I had made up the spare bed, ready for visitors. These were not the visitors I had in mind!




They were eventually persuaded that the intended visitor was Wendy and not them!

Santa has been to my place:





And the rain has returned with vigour. There are storms and heavy rain across the whole Eastern Seaboard. I do not think there will be much outdoor Christmas activity today. Or tomorrow, come to that. I wonder where my favourite Christmas jumper is.

Monday, December 18, 2023

More Partying/Eating/Merry-Making

When Stella, Lindsey and I went out for lunch on my birthday, my friend Pat had hoped to join us.

Alas, she was double booked and couldn't come. So Stella and I met her for lunch at Piper's on Tuesday of last week. Piper's is on the opposite side of the lake to The Boatshed and is set back from the water. But it's a lovely location, across from the Botanic Gardens and close to where the Zoo Drive market is held. They also do lovely food. We had a good lunch and a good time.

Lindsey and Ian were in Sydney over the weekend, so Freyja and Simon came up to do a little partying of their own, and to look after Rupert and Hugo. We took Stella to The Crown in Buninyong for lunch yesterday. Freyja and Simon hadn't been there before. It's a nice building with big windows which have lovely views out over the hills. It's also, pretty much, my local. Not so much Stella's. The Golden Point is closer to her. The Crown does vegan and vegetarian food but there aren't many options. Freyja had a roasted vegetable stack and was a bit surprised to find that the base of the stack was a huge piece of pumpkin - not really a seasonal vegetable at this time of year. Oh, and no roast potatoes, surely compulsory in a roasted vegetable stack! Fortunately Simon had ordered a bowl of loaded chips (with a vegan Japanese style curry sauce) and was happy to share so Freyja did get some potatoes even if fried rather than roasted. Not that she minded. Chips are more than acceptable.

They have been merry-making at the Mount Clear Aged Care Facility. They organised a little market in the activity room, selling locally made products. Candles and smelly things from Mia and Talbot, Soaps by a local soap maker, Boiled sweets from Sovereign Hill, small Christmas puddings and biscuits and mince pies from local bakers. It was only small but it was well attended and I think sold out quite quickly. Stella and I bought a few things and rather enjoyed it. They had a Christmas party on Friday, which we didn't go to, but they had a men's choir singing Christmas songs, and canapés and tea and cakes. And on Christmas Day residents who are staying in for the day can invite family and friends to come and join them for Christmas lunch. I was going to go last year with Jim but they had to cancel it because of a Covid outbreak (the Covid restrictions were stricter then), so I took him up to Hill House for Christmas sandwiches and chocolates instead.

Jim at Hill House on Christmas
Day 2022

And no opportunity to go this year either. Stella will be at Hill House on Christmas Day.

 

Tuesday, December 12, 2023

Christmas Party

The RMG Christmas party was at the Skinny Dog hotel in Kew on Sunday afternoon.

I had thought about going down with Lindsey and Ian. Ian was intending to come back to Ballarat so I thought I could hitch a ride back with him. But then he decided he would come back by public transport. If we had been in the city centre that would have been perfect but from Kew we would have had to take a tram into the city before catching the train back to Ballarat and then a taxi back to our houses. The trains only run once an hour on Sundays. I could see this taking a Very Long Time Indeed.

I went to Kew in my car.

The traffic was horrible once I got past Melton. It's usually quite well behaved on Sundays, so I assume some sort of accident or other impediment to progress. My sat nav took me off the freeway and along some back roads to avoid the delays, so I don't know what the problem was.

The party was fun. There were doctors and nurses and admin staff. There were family members. There were several babies and tiny children. There was plenty of finger food. I drank soda water because I was driving but there were lots of bottles of wine available and plenty of soft drinks.

Then Ian and I came home. The roads were clear and it didn't take anywhere near as long as it would have by tram, train and taxi.

Mind you - I'm glad I wasn't trying to get between here and Melbourne, or vice versa, yesterday afternoon. There were multiple car crashes, involving up to 30 vehicles, that closed the freeway in both directions between Bacchus Marsh and Ballan just in time for the Returning Home from Work traffic. Fortunately, no one was killed but it certainly created chaos.


Out partying in Kew


Sunday, December 10, 2023

A Saturday in December

The weather forecasters were doomcasting  extreme weather conditions across Eastern Australia for Saturday. Temperatures in excess of 40° in Sydney and parts of New South Wales. A cyclone in Queensland. Fire, Flood, Damaging Winds across much of the Eastern Seaboard.

In Ballarat it was raining, slightly breezy and a top temperature of perhaps 17° - if we were lucky.

Lindsey and I donned our jumpers and jackets and made our way out to Buninyong to the Post Office and to check out the little gift shop that sits next to the tiny museum run by the Historical Society. Then we braved the rain out at the Zoo Drive market. The people of Ballarat are obviously hardy folk. The market was quite busy despite the weather.

We did our usual shopping, got soaked and then went to Wilson's for fruit and veg, the Reject Shop because we were in the area, and to the Saltbush Kitchen so Lindsey could get some spice and dukkah mixes.

Then we went home. I changed into dry clothes and had a warming cup of tea.

We visited Stella mid-afternoon and then ... Bravely? Foolhardily? Loyally? Whatever - we went out to the Buninyong Christmas Night Market. The Carols in the Park had been cancelled because of the rain but the market went ahead. It was a pity about the weather. Had it been a pleasant afternoon/evening or even a dry one, and certainly if the carols had gone ahead - the market would have been packed. As it was, there were people there and the church and village halls were busy, but there were nowhere near the numbers that you would have expected and the outside stalls were fairly quiet. All the better for those of us who were there. We had the chance to have a proper look at things. Lindsey and I had decided that, had we been at a Christmas Market in Europe, we wouldn't worry about cold and wet weather, so we weren't going to worry about it in Buninyong and we had a good time despite the rain.

I brought a box of fish and chips home with me for dinner, took off my second lot of wet clothes, put my pyjamas and a snuggly dressing gown on, lit the Christmas lights and candles and settled in for a cosy evening in my warm and dry house. 

Saturday, December 09, 2023

Birthday

It was my birthday on Thursday.

Stella, Lindsey and I went to the Boatshed for lunch, by way of celebration.

I had booked a table earlier in the week. Couldn't get a table on The Deck - there was a group booking. But our table in the restaurant overlooked the water and had a lovely view

View from our table

Stella, waiting for her confit duck

My celebratory barramundi and chips
with a birthday glass of fizz

A conversation I had with my mother a week or so ago:

Stella: What would you like for your birthday?

Frances: Bunnings Money, please

Stella: Bunnings? What do you want to get at Bunnings?

Frances:  Potting mix, cow manure mix and mulch, please

Stella:  POTTING MIX? COW MANURE???!!!! What sort of a birthday present is that? Wouldn't you rather have some nice clothes or expensive soap or something?

Frances: No thank you. I have clothes and don't use expensive soap.

Stella: Something for the kitchen, perhaps?

Frances: No thank you. I don't need anything for the kitchen and I do need potting mix, cow manure and mulch for the garden.

So with reluctance, Stella handed over some money and after lunch Lindsey and I headed off  to Bunnings. 

I had a lovely time on my birthday afternoon filling up a couple of garden beds and planting a small rhubarb plant that Freyja and Simon gave me when they moved into their flat. The rhubarb plant that I already have will move in with it in the autumn. This time I really, really, really must remember to move it!  

I want to turn the area at the back of the house into a proper utility area. It already has the hot water heat pump and the air conditioning unit out there, along with a small plastic greenhouse that I use for storing plant pots. I intend to move the redundant raised veg bed there. (It was never particularly successful as a vegetable growing space and I use it as a potting table.) Then I'll move the raspberries and the rhubarb around into the fruit and vegetable garden. I might even put up the metal arch that I bought three or so years ago and haven't managed to install anywhere. It's in the garage, waiting for its moment in the sun.

Tuesday, December 05, 2023

A weekend of shopping

It was a gloomy, miserable day on Saturday, not to mention a bit on the chilly side.

This did not disrupt our plans.

We picked up Stella late morning and then made our way out to Wendouree, to the Stockland Shopping complex. We were a bit surprised to see all the buses lined up by the old cattle yards, and very surprised to see the crowd of youthful people who were trudging from the buses towards Victoria Park.

Lindsey and I had forgotten about the Spilt Milk music festival. I knew it was happening (one of our young receptionists was going). I didn't realise it was in Victoria Park, and wasn't thinking about it anyway.

Alas, it meant that the roads we were planning to drive along were closed to traffic. There were cars and people everywhere. The Stockland car park was also very full. Fortunately, Lindsey managed to find a parking spot close to the shops, and it wasn't so busy once we got inside.

Lunch in the Wild Seed cafe, where Ian unexpectedly joined us. Then he went off to do whatever he was out Wendouree way for and Stella, Lindsey and I went for a wander around the shops.

Then we went to Wilsons where Stella had a lovely time buying fruit and snacks and munchy things.

Sunday found Lindsey and me at the railway station in time for the 9:20 train to Melbourne. The platform was packed! This surprised us. Ballarat is usually quite sleepy at that time on a Sunday morning.

The train conductor reminded us that the train was very crowded so please to make sure we didn't have our bags and things on the seat next to us. The merry makers from Spilt Milk were on their way home. I hadn't properly realised that the music festival was really only on Saturday afternoon and evening. I had expected it to run into Sunday. And I was very surprised that the merry makers were up so early after a long night of music and dancing.

We got to Melbourne and Lindsey and I made our way to the Exhibition Buildings for the Big Design Exhibition. It was VERY crowded. And filled with stalls of lovely things. Clothes, bags, food kits, pottery, fabrics, all sorts of things. Very expensive things, some of them. It was slightly disconcerting that $150 bought me enough things to fill one carrier bag. At the Ballarat market that amount of money would have required several shopping bags.

We had lunch at Il Gambero in Lygon Street. I haven't had pizza in Carlton for years and now two come along in around a month.

The weather was better than it had been on Saturday.
We sat outside for lunch


We walked back into the city and then caught a tram to the station and a train back to Ballarat. I have a seniors travel card. The whole day cost me $3.60 on public transport, and that was the train fare to Melbourne in the morning. The trams and the return train trip cost me nothing. We had taken Lindsey's car into the station in the morning and parked in the station car park. That was free too. So a very cheap trip to Melbourne (if you don't count the money we spent while we were there!)

My knees and ankles were somewhat surprised by all that walking. They were disinclined to move much on Monday!


I don't usually put up my Christmas stuff until after my birthday. I put it up a little earlier this year because I had bought a new Christmas tree, which is taller than any I have had before. I wanted to dress it so I could see what else I needed to get for it. As it turns out, I don't really need anything else. And I have put Christmas in the dining room this year.




After 24 hours, I decided having the tree next to the fire was too cramped. The tree looked squashed and I was also squashed when sitting at my chair at the table. So I moved it into the corner by the patio door



I think it looks much better there.

I also dressed Freyja and Simon's tree, which is sitting on my front porch. It might need a bit of a re-organisation. I haven't put the lights on properly.